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Absolute Dominas Is the New FemDom Society of Montreal

Welcome to AbsoluteDominas.com

It has been one year in the works and I am proud to present Absolute Dominas. For those of you from Montreal’s BDSM scene who know and love us, I am pleased to have your continuing support and inspiration. If you are hearing about us for the first time, let me make a brief introduction:
Mistress Irony and Mistress Hellkitty met while working at Montreal Dommes, a locally-based house of professional domination. Although young, they knew exactly what they wanted. They started making plans to expand business with their passion for BDSM, fetish, and artistic performances, in order to share their experiences with the whole community. With little means, they created a series of original, private events, where players could meet new partners and explore their fantasies at a low cost. Finally, Dominants and submissives from around the globe came to join the action. When Montreal Dommes took a new direction, the two Mistresses split from the original group.
Today, Mistress Irony and Mistress Hellkitty support and perform at events such as Club Sin, Montreal Fetish Weekend, and Cirque du Boudoir. They also attend other local and international events as both performers and invited guests.

The first Absolute Dominas event was on September 30th, 2011. What a success! These events are by RSVP only. For further information, consult the group and event listings that are posted on Fetlife.

Guest Mistresses of Absolute Dominas include: Mistress Eira Kage, Mistress Akina, Mistress Persephanie, and Switch Ruby Gardens

By Hellkitty | 06 October 2011 | Featured | | 0 Comments   

International Reign of Terror: Mistress Hellkitty’s Naughty Travel Highlights

I’m a busy Dominatrix, but I endeavour to leave the local fetish scene and travel to several fetish and BDSM related parties and club events as often as possible. This year I have packed My gear into suitcases which slaves carry for Me to the ends of the Earth. I love meeting kinksters , fetish models, and photographers. Furthermore, it is a way to satisfy My dark curiosity and witness new hardcore delights that I can share with those who find themselves under My boots wherever I may be. Let’s face it, I also love to stir things up!

Wasteland in Amsterdam, NL

As soon as I arrived with a friend and My slave, comments and seductive looks were coming My way. Everyone there was dressed to party fiercely and have relentless sexual encounters. There was a sea of well built attractive men, who were telling Me about an event called Bitch that would be more geared to My sensibilities. I got the point: guard My slave’s rear against the usual advances by leather men. It is surprising how many times he gets molested by excited women and men while in bondage on My leash at parties. It makes him look like such a helpless target. I find it a funny since he really doesn’t appreciate it at all. What I learned is that these kinksters are civilised! There was some hype, comments and jokes about his ass, but not one single molestation occurred all night.

By that time I had picked up another random slave on a leash and was making My way through the crowds in all the different rooms to find the play space. There were enough sex swings and drugs to fuel the entire evening. There was even a sex labyrinth. I didn’t sample any of these because I was on a mission. Dungeon equipment was no where to be found. I decided to utilise the columns holding the roof, and handcuffed My 2 slaves in place for their warm up punishment.

After this, I pulled them into the centre of a circus ring surrounded by giant inflatable high heeled legs. More corporal punishment with the cane, crop, flogger, and nipple clamps. This was followed by well as high heel body and cock trampling, as well as ball busting. Both slaves were getting as much as I could dish out.

I was in the zone, so concentrated on the action when I realised there was a big crowd of spectators and photographers. When I finally decided to give the poor leashed slaves a break, people were coming up to Me asking how they were able to book Me to perform. I really thought this was funny, because I was simply doing what I do at any Fetish party when the mood strikes. I didn’t know that I was so well known!

The next person to recognise Me a little later on was the lovely fetish model, Louva from Demask. Perhaps she had been watching the next spectacle I had put on. By that time, all the sexual acts around Me had built up the lust within Me. I wasn’t interested in swinging with strangers. My solution was to equip My slave with a humiliator gag and a 10″, thick black dildo. He wears the gag in his mouth under a full face leather hood that I zip closed so that it only reveals the modular base. To sum up the show, I basically rocked the slave’s face while he was on his knees, strapped tightly into the rubber straight jacket. I had only to tug on the leash when I needed deeper penetration. Again, this seemed to be something very different and a crowd did gather. When I was barely finished satisfying Myself, Louva came and sat down beside Me with her friend. She introduced herself and already knew Me by name. We had a little chat, but I have to say that I was a bit star-struck so I snuck away promising to come back for drinks. One thing is certain: Louva is gorgeous in real life!

Here are a few other points of interest in 2011:

Torture Garden in Toronto, CA

SMil (Special Manifest) in Copenhagen, DK

Club Equipage in Berlin, DE

Kit Kat Club in Berlin, DE

Montreal Fetish Weekend

By Hellkitty | 06 October 2011 | Featured | , , , | 0 Comments   

Shopping for the Prfect Latex Straight Jacket

London, UK

The afternoon started with a late lunch with the lovely Mistress Morrigan Hel. This was a birthday present for a slave. He had the pleasure to watch us, and try his luck at evesdropping from where he was seated at another table. After lunch, We said Our goodbyes and said slave took Yours Truly to Fettered Pleasures.

The store was filled with sexy rubber, latex, and leather gear. Although I was on a mission to fill My suitcase with latex clothing for Myself, this store was oriented for making a man submit to rubber bondage. W/we were tended to by a very enthousiastic shop keeper. Before long, My slave was completely enrobed in a thick shiny rubber straight jacket and head harness to keep him collared and quiet for as long as I deemed it so. The straight jacket also had a system for accessing the genitals or rear independantly. Each buckle came with it’s own lock to make certain that there was no way out, even with a massive amount of struggling. The shop keeper also mentioned that even if the detainee succeeded in finding a sharp object, it is quite impossible to pierce the thick rubber shell. I like his attitude!

Standing behind My kneeling, bound, fully submissive slave while looking at the view in the mirror was enough to convince Me that this outfit had found it’s new Owner. On to House of Harlots conveniently located next door…

Fantasy Blackmail In 3 Easy Steps

Here is an example of how fantasy blackmail works in 3 easy steps:

*Note that since this is fantasy blackmail, the submissive is participating consensually without coercion.

1. Obtain photos of the submissive doing things that might do more than raise eyebrows if the wrong people found out. Participation of the submissive is mandatory.

2. Cleverly blur out the face or other recognizable characteristics and wait for an opportunity where a little leverage could be useful.

3. Publish the photo on the Internet and simply ask the submissive to do whatever it is you want, or the image and his/her identity will be revealed to the world.

Take a peek !

By Hellkitty | 22 December 2010 | Featured | , | 0 Comments   

Everything To Do With Sex Show In Toronto

The short and sweet summary:

Overall, I have to admit that I felt a little over-dressed, and over-kinked at the Everything To Do With Sex Show in Toronto from the start. I was overwhelmed by the reality of how “vanilla” the vanilla crowd is. However, helping out with Mizz Barbie Bitch’s showcase of professional dominatrixes put Me in touch with some genuine reactions. Although I can be easily pissed off about feeling like I’m giving tickets for Disneyland to spoiled brats, I am also thrilled about giving curious individuals a first introduction to the excitement and fear of a dungeon setting. The only difference here is that it is in a very public, controlled and commercial environment.

What does it feel like to be strapped down to a spanking bench? And what if your boss/mother/student sees you on a report about the sex show strapped to torture equipment? Where, when, and with whom is it safe to cross that line? I forget sometimes how it was to hold a flogger for the first time, and how I then made My submissive give it to Me for keeps. It felt so right. It belonged in My hand and I belonged in another area of sexuality. Were W/we going to get caught by his family for making so much bloody noise???

Down the road, I see that being in the scene for a long time can dull reactions and sensations. We learn everything we can and constantly look for new kinks to try, always trying to be original and unique. I’ve been asked by newbies: “What is the point of getting suited up in latex or leather if everyone is just going to stand around looking hot?” Let U/us simply reflect on what brought U/us to this point in our sexuality. Let U/us also question O/our motivation and really know O/our desires and why it is so important to share this with others.  

Other remarks about the show:

*Female G-spot lecture: Why are there sooooo many people who don’t know where the Female G-spot is yet? Start doing your homework with a willing Female partner today. That goes for you too, Females!

*Sex Sells & Unrelated products: Seriously, do hair straighteners and nail decorations have anything to do with sex? Please prove Me wrong. People will buy a lot of $$$ nonsense because they believe it will get them sex. Take care of your body and mind and you will get better results. Save your cash for non-impulse items, like a vacation, or just blow it all on shoes for Me!

By Hellkitty | 30 November 2010 | Featured | , , | 0 Comments   

What does Mistress Hellkitty do on a rainy day?

I play with and torture submissives of course! Here is a short list of activities that I enjoy exploring with whomever the sub flavour of the day may happen to be. There are certainly a few things that I haven’t listed, so email Me any enquiries. In case you were wondering… I do not offer intimate body worship or sexual service. 

  1. Corporal punishment: caning / paddling / single tail / flogging / riding crops
  2. OTK spanking
  3. CBT: weights / trampling / ball busting
  4. NT: clamps / weights
  5. Bondage: rope / handcuffs / shackles / caging
  6. Sensory Deprivation / blindfolds
  7. Medical role play:  exams & fantasy procedures / sounds / enemas / anal
  8. Electrical: P.E.S. / TENS / Violet Wand
  9. Mummification:  plastic wrap / plaster cast
  10. Play piercing
  11. Fire play
  12. Smothering and breath play / gags
  13. Interrogations & psychodrama
  14. Fetish: boots / shoes/ latex / gloves / cigar smoking
  15. Foot worship: clean / dirty
  16. Leg worship: nylon stockings & garter belt / pantyhose
  17. Humiliation
  18. Submissive training: slave / pony / puppy
  19. Enforced female transformations: sissy / maid
  20. Slut Training: strap-on / dildo
  21. Tease & denial / chastity
  22. Toilet training
  23. Financial slavery
By Hellkitty | 14 October 2010 | Featured | , , , , , | 0 Comments   

LEAVING MONTREAL DOMMES FOR NEW FEMDOM BEGINNINGS

Dear Friends,

RE: Let’s keep focus on what is truly important: Our passion for Fetish & BDSM in an educational and practical environment

As Montreal Fetish Weekend is now past, Irony and I finally met with the Montreal Dommes admin yesterday and the result is that we are splitting from the Montreal Dommes. Learning and evolving is a major necessity for any enterprise and Mistress Irony and I feel that our philosophy about professional domination and business practices has taken a new direction over the years. There are absolutely no hard feelings. We are building our new project from the bare bones up.  In the meantime, sessions are available at other local dungeons. As soon as we can announce our new project, you will be the first to know. In the meantime, you may contact us at our personal email addresses/websites:

mistressirony.com
mistressirony@hotmail.com

hellkittyonline.com
mistress.hellkitty@gmail.com

xox
Mistress Hellkitty

MISTRESS HELLKITTY LOVES LATEX @ MONTREAL FETISH WEEKEND 2010

Montreal Fetish Weekend is an amazing event packed with wild latex fashions, sexy bondage shows, and private BDSM play areas for VIPs. I look forward to attending so much all year long, I proclaim about the action to whomever I meet at fetish events, especially in far away places. The only reason I would do such a thing is purely selfish. In fact, I gave praise about MFW to kinksters in Tokyo and handed out flyers to sexy people in NYC and Toronto just to recruit them to party with Me. Let Me tell you, this totally pays off!

Friday Night:

To My surprise and delight a certain rubber lover came in from the US and W/we had a publicly debaucherous time getting reacquainted. I had instructed him to wear a metal ball stretcher under his latex outfit, to which I attached a leash. I feel so powerful having a man’s full attention with the slightest corrective tug on his naughty bits. After the party, I took My tall latex prisoner with his balls fully exposed for a walk on Sainte Catherine Street, directing him with the leash to the after-hours play space nearby. The crowd outside were eating it up and a few males made sympathetic groans.

Since My tool bag was back at the dungeon and My rubber prisoner had emptied out most of the contents of his toy bag to get over the border, I didn’t have much to work with. No problem for Mistress Hellkitty! I had him spread-eagled with the ball stretcher leash securely wrapped around a St-Andrew’s cross and clipped back to the metal stretcher in no time. With his crotch zipper open, I worked over the rubber prisoner’s back, butt and thighs with a small leather flogger through his latex catsuit, but I was still unsatisfied by the results. It didn’t sound like their was much suffering at all. The flogger’s wooden handle felt smooth in My gloved hand… and, that open zipper displaying his ass was too much of an invitation. It was only a blink of an eye before I had on a pair of black latex gloves and was sodomizing My prisoner with the lubed, and condom covered, flogger handle.

>>Fast forward>>

Saturday Night:

Hmm, I honestly couldn’t tell you who was there or what went on at Latextasy. I arrived late in the night. After changing chastity slave rakehell backstage, I was off doing My full body plaster casting demo on slave vee in the lowly lit medical area. The whole messy process has to be completed from A to Z without interruption and requires more focus than a party atmosphere generally allows. Goddess Starla suddenly appeared with her blond hair glowing greenish in the black UV lights. She cut sections of plaster bandages and prepared the water tray. I carefully wrapped slave vee’s arms, torso and legs with layers of cotton gauze and foam, making sure to molest and caress her body through the materials. I felt her excitement welling up as the final layer of wet plaster bandages were applied, then smoothed down to help the plaster set properly. I had transformed her into a helpless creature who was literally stuck inside a full body cast until I would decide to cut her free. One thing most people don’t know about plaster casting is that it shrinks as it dries, slowly compressing around the patient. slave vee was experiencing this sensual feeling in her bubble of bliss. I would have kept My patient there for days, taking care of her and teasing her repeatedly with a Hitachi wand until she begged Me for mercy. However, vee was a slave on loan and her Master finally came to release her at the end of the night.

>>Fast forward>>

Sunday Night:

I couldn’t believe I was still in one piece after having an event each night starting from the previous Wednesday. I was seriously doubting that I would be in shape for the last party: Le bal des vampires. I was seriously wrong about that! When I saw the decor, I knew this was going to be My night to party and explode with every ounce of energy in Me. What a sexy party! Whereas before the focal point was the main stage the other nights, after The Richard’s vampire show, every piece of dungeon equipment and every dark corner was full of players. The VIP play space was finally getting some action. There were multiple subbies getting spankings as well as cunnilingus. Who’s the voyeur? At least I pretended not to be by locking slave rakehell down to the spanking bench and working him over with every tool in My artillery. Secretly, I was peeking out of the corner of My eye as I paused to check the flogging distance. OMG I was getting such an eye full! Behind Me the shadows were dark and shiny, moving sensually and discreetly. Double take. Black latex from boot to gas mask. There were two sets of latex lovers up against the wall, fucking through some invisible unzipped crotch hole. I continued My work, matching the rhythm of their passions with the weight of the flogger’s tails stinging My slave’s flesh. Another latex couple with busy hands reflected the same intensity on the inflatable couch. I locked slave rakehell back into the cage, knowing how tortured this chastity slave would be with all the action that was taking place right outside. There he was on his knees, frozen in worship while a moaning slave girl leaning over the cage got a licking. I abandoned slave rakehell there and found a damn good reason to lock Myself inside a giant coffin.

It’s been 2 weeks and the smile is still on My face.

Sessions with Mistress Hellkitty

Challenges, discipline, punishment, and adhering to the strictest forms of training are My notions of a professional session. I’m not paid to be nice, so don’t expect a walk in the park. I will test you at every occasion. Some wonder if Mistresses are just in the role for the cash. In My case, many have witnessed how much BDSM activities truly excite Me. In My sessions I decide how long an hour lasts, so if I’m having fun, be prepared to spend the entire evening serving My every desire.

PS: I adore traveling to attend fetish events or for bdsm sessions. If you see Me, don’t be shy!

About Mistress Hellkitty

So you want to find out about what makes Me tick?

I am very well known in the Montreal fetish and BDSM community as a lifestyle Domme, but My professional activities are very discreet. I take great pleasure from entertaining kink and domination as long as it is safe, sane and consensual. In general, I am interested by things that are out of the ordinary. In My opinion, intimate relationships would simply be too unsatisfactory and lackluster without the spice of kink. However, don’t expect any opportunities for an intimate relationship with Me of any kind.

I have My own set of para sexual preferences which started to develop at a very tender age. Bondage was the first on the list, followed by pony play, flogging, discipline and spanking, confinement and sensory deprivation, foot worship, and ownership. Since adulthood, I have also developed a number of other equally stimulating interests which you can read about on this site.

Creative fetishism also has a strong influence in My style of play and career direction. I am extremely fascinated by authentic historical dress. Vintage corsetry, footwear, seamed stockings, retro lingerie, cigarette holders, fans, etc. On the contrary, I am also spellbound by stylishly racy clothing and accessories; particularly PVC stiletto boots and shoes, latex butcher aprons and leather eye patches. Above all, I pay great attention to detail, workmanship and quality. I will never be satisfied by anything less than the best.